Going to see Dad tomorrow night. I'm at my witt's end with the fucking home. He hasn't showered in almost 2 months. He has been wearing the same clothes for almost as long. They call me when he's not eating, or when he hasn't showered. I had a one day break about a week ago, then got a call, played phone tag and worried for 5 days, finally got a hold of someone just to find out it is the same old story. I had a conversation with the resident manager, and it looks like "they are going to make a decision in a month about moving him to long term care". Honest opinion it's not going to happen. I've been fucked twice already by LTC. It will be the best thing for him. The last assessment he had they deemed that he is "right where he is supposed to be". I'm thinking that in the next month I am going to get calls basically daily. I honestly think it's their MO to be doing this, waiting to see whose going to crack first. We
In the last day I've had multiple calls from the home. Typically they leave these really quiet messages that sound very anxious like I need to call right fucking now. I spoke with the home today after spending 20 minutes building myself up to make the call. Dad update: he's barely eating, looks like hell, refuses to shave, is sleeping often. I attempted to book him in for a haircut but I think he refused. I also believe that he has not let them touch his laundry in months. I have no idea when he last showered. The last asked me to book an appointment with his doctor. Took me another 20 minutes to call his doc. The office is closed today and tomorrow. Next week I have another assessment for him. I'm worried he's going to freak out and punch the guy. I will likely have to take a day off work and take him to the doctor. I'm sure they don't make house calls anymore. The next time a doctor is coming to the home is October. Of course his doctors office is on cr