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Still lots to do

We have taken a bit of a break and are starting to slowly feel like ourselves again.  For 9 months we basically only talked about or did things for Dad.  

I don't expect that we will be back to real normal for awhile, but we are working on it.

There is still quite a lot to do.  I can't just let myself stop and not work on things.  It will fall by the wayside if I don't do things.

Mostly there is a lot of financial stuff I need to work on.  The good news is dad isn't spending any money needless at this point.

There is also cleaning up the house, and his leftover things.  

I'd like to grab a few more things for his room, a tv, some books an extra painting or picture or 2.

I also need to get a hold of the funeral home, as dad's name is tied to the family plots.  Hopefully that isn't a fiasco.  Most things have been so, I am guessing it will be as well.

I'm going to call him at the home today to check in.  Tomorrow I'm going to stop by for a visit for a bit.  Bring him some goodies.

He apparently has a girl who is a friend.  Didn't take him long !  It's good though, they chat a lot.


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