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Nice lunch today

 I picked up Dad and we went for a walk to altos for a burger.  I called yesterday to let him know and he was waiting for me when I got there.

He was very cheery and talkative.  We had a few good conversations.  I had to redirect him a bit (a skill I didn't know that I had).  He kept saying his foot was bugging him and that he would just go over the hill to the place to talk to the guy.

I said I needed help carrying in a box for him from my truck.  I sneakily left it in there.

Thankfully he forgot about the hill and the guy.

I spoke with the aids and he is doing well.  I honestly think the hospital scared him a bit.

I have to do some money arrangements and apply for subsidy there.  It would be nice if he can stay there for the time being.  It is quite expensive.

Provided he is okay, etc.  

We ordered a basic burger and they ended up bringing us a double!  He ate it all hahahha.

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